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With 25 years of global experience, I provide a comprehensive, multifactorial approach to sexual well-being. As a Medical Doctor, I first assess all physical and medical factors to ensure a complete, safe diagnosis. From there, proven therapeutic techniques address psychological and relational aspects in a confidential, non-judgmental space.

Ilah Kristel I. Mallari is a multi-certified Sexologist and Trauma-Informed Coach based in San Francisco. Specializing in survivors, queer/trans relationships, and kink, she offers a judgment-free zone using the PLISSIT and MEBES models. She empowers clients through harm reduction, somatic tools, and diverse educational resources.

Much of how we relate to others is shaped by unseen forces: family history, cultural pressures, and past trauma. As a consultant specializing in gender, relational patterns, and transgenerational healing, I provide a space to map these influences, illuminate limiting patterns, and equip you with clarity and tools to create deeper connections and empowered well-being.

My therapy offers a safe, affirming, and empowering space grounded in the RAISE values: Respect, Aspirations, Inclusion, Support, and Engagement. I work with individuals and couples of all ages and backgrounds, including marginalized communities, helping them reconnect with their authentic selves and build meaningful, fulfilling relationships.

Mónica Escárpita, Psychologist with a Master’s in Sex and Couples Therapy, is passionate about helping people live lighter, more fulfilling lives. Using an integrative, CBT-based approach, she provides a safe, sex-positive space for women and couples, offering practical tools to foster emotional clarity, strengthen relationships, and reconnect with themselves.

Nick Fernandez, PhD, is a clinician and strategic thinker who views therapy as a collaborative laboratory for self-discovery. Integrating Criminal Psychology, psychoanalysis, and Axiology, he guides individuals and couples to analyze their life’s architecture, understand internal drives, and build actionable toolkits for a fulfilling, intentional future.

Therapy should do more than help you feel better. It should help you understand yourself. I work with individuals and couples on anxiety, low mood, communication and intimacy. The method is evidence-based, the pace is yours, and the work is adapted to the person in front of me rather than to the diagnosis on paper.